For years here I have always spoken about one side of my sexuality, but many don’t know that I am actually bisexual. And since I am bisexual and since it is Pride month here in Vancouver I decided it was time to talk about the always expanding realm of fun toys for the 2SLGBTQIA+ bedroom.
I love seeing amazing brands like LELO recognizing that relationships come in many forms and that pleasure, intimacy, and connection are not limited to one specific orientation, gender identity, or relationship structure. As a result, a new generation of sexual wellness products is emerging; ones designed with inclusivity, communication, and shared experiences at the forefront.
The Evolution of the Sexual Wellness Industry
The sexual wellness industry has experienced significant growth over the past decade. What was once considered a taboo topic has gradually become part of broader conversations about self-care, mental health, relationship satisfaction, and overall well-being.
Lovers today are viewing sexual wellness as an extension of personal health. Just as people invest in fitness trackers, meditation apps, and skincare routines, many are also seeking products that support intimacy, confidence, and healthy relationships. This shift has encouraged manufacturers to move beyond one-size-fits-all designs and create products that reflect the diversity of modern relationships. LELO is one of my favorite companies doing just that, they have a truly lovely range of toys for all kinds of play
Why Inclusivity Matters
Historically, many intimacy products were marketed almost exclusively toward heterosexual couples. While these products served a purpose, they often failed to acknowledge the experiences of bisexual, lesbian, gay, non-binary, transgender, and polyamorous individuals.
Inclusive product design recognizes that there is no single “normal” relationship dynamic.
Instead, designers are creating products that can be adapted to different bodies, preferences, and partnership styles. This flexibility allows more adults to feel represented and welcomed within the sexual wellness space. That representation matters. Feeling seen and considered by a brand can contribute to greater comfort, confidence, and openness when exploring intimacy with a partner.
Designing for Shared Experiences
A growing trend within the industry is the development of products specifically intended for mutual enjoyment rather than focusing on only one partner’s experience.
This reflects a broader understanding that intimacy is often about connection as much as it is about physical sensation.
Manufacturers are increasingly exploring features such as:
- Dual-user designs
- Flexible shapes that accommodate different bodies
- App-connected customization options
- Adjustable intensity settings
- Sensory textures and ergonomic designs
These innovations are designed to create experiences that can be personalized based on the unique preferences of those using them. Inclusivity extends beyond sexual orientation alone.
Modern relationships can take many forms, including monogamous partnerships, long-distance relationships, open relationships, and polyamorous family structures. Products that offer flexibility and adaptability are often more appealing because they can be incorporated into a variety of relationship dynamics without assuming how intimacy “should” look.
This shift represents an important step forward for an industry that has historically relied on narrow assumptions about relationships.
Technology Meets Wellness
Technology has also played a significant role in reshaping the sexual wellness landscape. Features such as app connectivity, customizable settings, and remote controls allow users to tailor experiences to their individual preferences.
While technology itself is not the primary focus, these tools can support exploration, communication, and personalization within relationships. For many adults, the ability to customize an experience can contribute to a greater sense of comfort and control. For instance the LELO BOOMERANG™ has two additional features when you connect it to the LELO app!
App connectivity: Bluetooth connection to the LELO app provides the two additional modes.
Type: A dual-ended, vibrating couples’ device.
Design: Curved/ergonomic shape with soft, ribbed silicone surfaces.
Motors: Two independent vibrating motors—one at each end.
Settings: 8 built-in settings, with 2 additional settings available through the LELO app, for 10 total modes.
Intensity: 16 intensity levels.
Materials: Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic.
Water resistance: Fully waterproof.
Charging: USB rechargeable.
Dimensions: Approximately 11 × 1.4 × 2.2 inches.
Weight: Approximately 155 g.
Battery: 420 mAh lithium battery; LELO lists up to 2 hours of use.
Automatic shutoff: After 20 minutes.
Included: Device, USB charging cord, storage pouch, warranty card, instruction manual and lubricant sachet.
A Growing Focus on Wellness Rather Than Taboo
Perhaps the most important change within the industry is the growing emphasis on wellness rather than secrecy.
Consumers today are increasingly looking for products that align with broader health goals, including stress reduction, relationship satisfaction, body positivity, and self-confidence.
Rather than being viewed solely as novelty items, many sexual wellness products are now positioned as part of a larger conversation about personal well-being and healthy adult relationships.
The LELO BOOMERANG™ is a thoughtfully designed, technology-focused product that is perfect for any toy collection and I cannot suggest it more highly.